Me and my friends
Relations between friends are based on voluntariness and reciprocity; they are characterized by the same age, same interests and similar lifestyles. In old age, it is precisely because equality of years the reason of frequent loss of friends. Even in that age when the majority of older people have grandchildren or even great-grandchildren, of course, is inevitable that sooner or later they will be left alone without a spouse. Friends can play an important role and can be of great support in difficult moments.
Why are friends important in old age?
They help prevent loneliness and social exclusion. They can help make days shorter and enliven even the really dreadful everyday life. Above all, they understand the feelings and fears faced by the elderly. Children, grandchildren and other relatives, despite the fact that they want to help and are often in contact with the elderly, cannot understand what the person is experiencing, thinking, feeling. Therefore, it is sometimes much easier to talk to their peers, who themselves are facing with such feelings.
Between the sexes in general, there are no differences in the number of friends, but there is a difference in quality and formulation of relationships. Larger network of friends have of course those persons who live more dynamic and active life. Friends play an important role in active aging, and together can undertake various ventures.
However, in terms of practical and personal help, friends do not have alternative roles for the family. Their support is on more personal and emotional level. Among friends is more about keeping balance between giving and receiving. It can be expected that the friendship in old age, especially in urban environments, gained even greater importance.